ada perkowska

I support people in transition. 

when change comes

There are periods in life when something has ended and something new has not yet begun. Identity changes, a role expires, a relationship ends or meaning leaves your life. Someone close dies or someone new arrives. 

It can be visible externally, or it can be entirely internal. It’s a potent phase and a difficult one. We can’t go back to how things were, and we don’t know what lies ahead.

Periods of transition can feel disorienting. 

There is grief and relief, longing and indifference, excitement and fear, ambition and despair, clarity and confusion.

Often several of these happen at once.

 

Because of its intensity, it is frequently misunderstood. It can be interpreted as failure, instability, or a sign that something is wrong.

There is pressure to resolve it quickly, to fix, to re-stabilise, to stay positive, to show progress.

When this phase is rushed or avoided, it often returns in repeated patterns, strained relationships, impulsive decisions, or a sense of having acted against oneself.

Over time, this can limit honest reflection and lead to choices that do not truly honour one’s values.

 

I support people through periods

of transition 

when identity, direction, or meaning

begin to shift 

to reconnect with what feels deeply

true.

“Let everything happen to you:

beauty and terror.

Just keep going.

No feeling is final.”

Rilke

 

When transition receives space and attention, different possibilities open. Endings can be faced with steadiness. Decisions can be made with integrity. Uncertainty can be tolerated long enough for clarity to form. New capacities emerge. Self-trust and personal responsibility deepen.

I support this process through listening and attuned presence. It’s a precise, careful, responsive attention that helps you think clearly, recognise your own patterns and contradictions, and reconnect with what feels true.

 

what can we do

1:1 online sessions​

A space for sustained reflection and honest conversation to explore your personal challenges and to deepen your understanding of yourself and how you engage with the world around you.

holotropic breathwork​

This is inner work in expanded states of consciousness that opens space for profound insight, release, and transformation. The workshops happen in southern Portugal.

contact me to arrange a session

I offer a free initial consultation for us to connect before you book a session